You have to know when to let go. And. Know when it is time to let go. It's not always going to be easy. But we should know by now that, 'Life Is Not Easy' but we have to do what we have to have to make it s alot less harder.
Sometimes that means letting of certain things and people in your life. We got to 'lose the stress to get with the best'.
And that is exactly what I am doing.
Sometimes you don't want to let go of something that used to make you happy, because you think somehow in the near future, it will make you happy again. The truth is, it won't. It will very seldomly rarely make you happy again. Just let it go.
Don't hold on to something that doesn't want to be held on to. Don't hold on to something that isn't your anymore OR wasn't yours in first place! Don't hold on to something that makes cry, hurts you, makes you feel inferior and less of a person. Don't hold on to it anymore.
If it is "meant-to-be" it will happen. If you are "meant-to-be" with someone let it go. Let him or her go. Stop calling them, texting them, emailing them, checking up on their status on myspaces, facebook, twitter, tagged, tokbox, etc. Just let it go. Walk away and move on with your life and make yourself happy.
Let go of everything they have done to you. Tell them you forgive them and go.
UNDERSTANDABLE, you may love this person and that person may also love you too, but if that person doesn't want to be in a monogamous relationship with you and isn't willing to commit to you and them. Then let it go and move on. No matter how many years you've known them or been with them. It is time to let go and move on. Hopefully onto someone and something better. If it's really mean-to-be, then it will happen.
Just like they say, "If you love somethings you have to let go. If it comes back thats when you will know." That is a true saying.
BUT you must ALSO know that sometimes when they come back, it's not always a good thing. That's when YOU, yourself, have to say "No. No more. Not again. Not this time or ever." Get a backbone and stand up and let them know that you let go and moved on for a reason.
If they really came back because of love. Make them work for it, just a little bit. BUT DON'T BE BITTER WITH IT! Because then you might end up losing the one. Just let them know your worth.
Ladies and Gentlemen, learn to let it go. Its going to be hard and it might be rough. You have to work at it, because happiness isn't easy.